First of all thanks for all the answers!
@Akuma: Factory Windows is installed. Of course other software is installed. How should I use the laptop without additional software? Which tool is responsible for this behaviour? Maybe a reinstallation helps. But I think its a driver or firmware problem, because stanby is not a thing of a utility.
Standby should also work with a pure Windows without any of this rubish vendor tools, slowing down my system
@Silas: First time it works correct. Of course I've done windows updates and installed programmes which I need to work with.
@Tonny: I tried it, but state of Intel HD3000 energie saving does not change anything to the behaviour after standby.